I'm 46; she's 29 on Tuesday (and I'm sweating over how to handle that, too) Been married 3.5 years.We both work. I'm pretty certain of EA since her emotional connection had to go somewhere when it left me. It's almost stereotypical WAW. Love you, not in love, etc. Her cell bill is a hard nut. There is no "logging' of call numbers and she's on a pretty generous plan. I thought of checking numbers for an OM but she spends most of her time with girlfriends with kids. No abuses or addictions. My opinion has always been that when we became pregnant in 07, we had to reno the old house in order to sell to get a more family oriented house. So we were pregnant; I was renovating every waking hour; a new house was under construction; she was soon to be on maternity leave (reduced income); her weight ballooned; etc. We were simultaneously doing almost all of the most stressful things a couple can endure.
