She really wants nothing to do with me. She is requesting as much travel time for business as possible, she goes and visits family often, she texts her friends all the time with things like "I'm so glad I am getting out", ect.
If I even mentioned sex, she would get REALLY mad.
Lately, she has been very happy, outgoing, and calm. I am in the process of LRT and doing 180s.
I have to let her see the consequences of her actions on her own. She is always asking for her "space" since we live in the same house while all this goes on.
Every day, she gets more and more detached from me. And I am trying to do the same, and focus on me.
But the thing is, we cross paths all the time in the house and I an now pretty much ignoring her. ONCE in a great while she asks me something, and I just aloofly answer. I show NO EMOTION AT ALL.
She perceives this as I am "crazy" or "acting out" (her words). She is expecting me to be friendly and interact maturely. She sees the beginning of this LRT as "flip flopping" and she texts her friends about it telling them I am "going off the deep end".
She seems to be (outwardly) enjoying this, because she thinks I am ignoring her because I am mad/hurt/angry, and it validates her decision to divorce a "crazy unstable" person.
She says her friends/family/co-workers are "amazing support" and they all want her to be happy and leave me if that will do it.
Last edited by Quicksilver264; 06/13/1008:34 PM.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
