laura i understand what your saying. he took me on 'dates', but i dont think he liked me or listened to me much. i started school after i married him, and he is an attorney. he absolutely absued his power of me regardless of situation/age more than i think this man did. i think its important to evalutate people's intentions, that's all. obviously he loved her and wanted to save her, not exploit her. i just dont think he's a bad pedophile or anyting...