Shelbel I have to say you handled that perfectly in my opinion! I recently felt compelled to jump back in an bail H out of his screwup and know how strong that pull is when you've done it for years. I can't imagine how hard it would be for a major loss!
You are absolutely right in not stepping in as per usual. Our Hs need to learn to handle things on their own and ask for specific help when they need it.
Good for you!!
(((hugs))))
~ This Diamond now SHINES!! ;-p ~
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