Reading will help you understand what you W is going thru. Having said this, you need to be careful that you do not spend so much time trying to understand what she is feeling that you loose the time that you should be spending on you.
As many have said, this is her issue and her battle to fight. You can only sit back and hope that she at some point begins to face her feelings. When and if she does, where will Mental be? That's really the question you need to answer.
I spent months trying to understand my W. Months looking for "signs", once I understood and then I realized that I needed to look at me. I needed to understand why I felt the way that I did. Do this for yourself and most of the answers that you want will be answered.
At some point you will need to really let her go and come to the realization that YOU or your knowledge of what she is going through cannot fix it. What you can do though is fix you.
My heart goes out to you.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
