I hope you come back, Fud. There is a wealth of knowledge and caring here.

They ask the hard questions, push you to dig deeper & sometimes they even take a hard stand--but they do it FOR you. Never against you.

Lol...you want to see rough way to go? Go read the first few pages of my thread. Of course, now I just shake my head when I read it. I was sooooo wrong--but boy, was I pissed!

But I needed it. Every word of it. And they were so right.

One of them told me to turn off that mean sounding voice when you read the posts--it probably wasn't meant the way you're taking it. It does make a ton of difference. After a while, we hear so much negative that we just start to temper everything we hear with it.

Turn off the *ugly* filter in your brain, read it again & jump in.

No one will hold it against you. Trust me.

Right Mach??? (Mach loves me now--just ask him.) *snort*


formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.