I hope you come back, Fud. There is a wealth of knowledge and caring here.
They ask the hard questions, push you to dig deeper & sometimes they even take a hard stand--but they do it FOR you. Never against you.
Lol...you want to see rough way to go? Go read the first few pages of my thread. Of course, now I just shake my head when I read it. I was sooooo wrong--but boy, was I pissed!
But I needed it. Every word of it. And they were so right.
One of them told me to turn off that mean sounding voice when you read the posts--it probably wasn't meant the way you're taking it. It does make a ton of difference. After a while, we hear so much negative that we just start to temper everything we hear with it.
Turn off the *ugly* filter in your brain, read it again & jump in.
No one will hold it against you. Trust me.
Right Mach??? (Mach loves me now--just ask him.) *snort*
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.