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I found and realized that I did not lose them…rather THEY found ME. Oh…the irony of it. Months…searching for them….to finally realizes that they were looking for me.


Now *this* just makes me want to cry.

Good work, DaddyO.

You know I'm a bit of a Pollyanna, but just think of how you would have missed out on this with your kids had you not been going through this hell. Yes, this will hurt them, D can't be easy on kids. But they are getting to know the man their father is. And that, my friend, is invaluable and will far & away outweigh the negative.

Every time.

Keep loving them. You are a great daddy.


formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.