Originally Posted By: Allen A
The affair has been three years running... one of them is going to get frustrated with the other...

My advice would be to hire a PI to collect hard evidence and take it to a newspaper outside the university.


Have plenty of hard evidence - invoices, phone records, pictures. Anyone who sees them would not dispute my affair assessment.

Will hold off going to newspaper outside university unless it comes down to divorce. Then, all bets are off...