And no, this isn't you controlling him... HE is controlling YOU.. he's manipulating you into accepting an OPEN MARRIAGE... and the sooner you ACT DRAMATICALLY to SHOW him the CONSEQUENCES of cheating the sooner this is OVER... if you don't act FAST and HARD he is going to make this physical and play head games with you further...
End contact with him and tell him you dont' want anything to do with him... until the affair is ENDED
you arne't controlling HIM, you are PROTECTING yourself and your children from an affair
