Having participated in Kat's thread about how long it has been since I have had sex (nine years and counting), it makes me wonder whether I should reevaluate my boundary of not being a "one night stand" type of person. To recount, W has been the only person I have had sex with (after going out on several dates and finding we really enjoyed each other's company) although there were a few instances before then where I could have "lost it" but I would not allow myself to go there. Shyness and timidity certainly played a part in that but I also believe that I wanted an emotional investment in the relationship - which didn't happen for me until W and I met all those years ago and something "clicked."
Maybe I'm overanalyzing things ...
Nine years, you're my hero! Now should you start nailing women just for the sake of nailing a woman? I say NO. You are who you are and go with that, nothing wrong with not having sex. it's way too overblown (uh, bad choice of words)in our society anyway. Besides, you still have the Palm sisters, right?
