MWD said it takes on average one month to db a marriage for every year you were married...
OIN in your case that's a rough estimate of 10 months of dbing with zero help or cooperation from her before she starts to show some signs of input... You have a bit to go yet... but you are starting to look for the small the small things and are accepting half measures on her part... THAT is the difference... you are working at her pace now rather than yours... a very important change
