The herniated disc in her back are separate from the nerve damage in her upper back/shoulder/neck area. herniated disc were caused by a fall she had when she was 17. The latter is something that just recently developed.
You are right quality is better than quantity. The past week and more so in the past couple days the snottiness has been at an all time low. W is starting to use sounds to communicate less and less. My issue has been getting an inch and wanting to take it a mile. I am expecting to much in such little time that I am getting offended too easily. The result is me becoming short myself where W detects my frustration and calls me out on it.
What we exhibit now verse how it was in the past is a world difference IMO. We always had a hard time doing things with each other it always started out with me finding something wrong with her or with what she was doing and nitpicking but now it a lot healthier than it use to be and with the assistance of all you on this forum and books and IC (hopefully soon) it will get healthier.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
