Heartbroken and needing help!

[glamgirl]

If at all possible IB you don't want to have any R conversations with your h. I would try to be nice and friendly, but that you are busy having a life.

You want to have him wondering why did he want to leave you again. Snodderly is so right, he needs his time and space to think and process this whole journey.

Get busy making plans for youself and with D and S too. You and your kids need to be your focus now.