Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

You're exactly right. She can easily pay for it from the cs+alimony payments. However she won't. I think what she wants to "clear up" is probably the school district. She likely wants her to go to the one where she's renting. It's a bit more upscale but had she not left DD would've gone to the district where the house is.

As for the stuff...I'll talk to my lawyer this week but it's about principal. She wants to do everything how it suits her I.e. Take me to court when it's in her interest and negotiate out of court when it suits her. I'm not going to be her puppet. Then getting petty about few dollars when I'm paying her thousands of dollars of my paycheck. She could at least show some respect and appreciation. However the bigger issue is that I want EVERYTHING to be listed and divided in one swoop. Not her coming back every week asking for something new.

It's funny how she's always playing a victim when all this is her doing (the divorce) and I'm the one losing everything because she never pAid for anything of value.

Time to get out of bed and go get DD.