I agree with Gucci on this. So far the only person you have talked to who is on same side of this affair as you is OM's W.
Your wife's friends and such, on the other hand, are enablers (and that calls their present character into question, IMO).
Fight for your kids, yourself and do what is right. Do not let your emotions dictate your next move. Do not contact your W (Lawyers should be used for this), OM, or your wife's enablers.
Go dark on the people working against you, and this includes your W at this time.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 06/13/1001:41 PM.
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