Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

W has gone to neurosurgeon and they sent her back to primary physician saying "nothing we can do." W has app. setup in July. W called off work again today, W said she is calling Dr. tomorrow to get app. for blood work.

My sitch has gone on since 01/24/10. When this all began and for the first few months my W would not so anything with me so it was a lot of GAL and doing things we normally did together alone. In the past month W actually wants to do things with me.

I read 5LL, DR, co-dependent no more (not all the way through yet) and I have other books that were recommended for the point where/if we do start to reconcile. I just started to read a couple books on body language.