I guess I don't undertand how he was using or abusin me. He wasn't being blatantly meant to me and I certainly don't think I was trying to interact. He left to feed my parking meter at one point and on several occasions tried to do VERY small talk "I just talked to so and so" and I would just respond with "Oh, that's nice".
you guys are all right. Im just not to a place emotionally where I can confront him (about new info) or file. I am getting there but I'm not there yet although I'm sure from the outside you would wonder why.
I'm glad everyone thinks I did a good job! I tried so hard although I'm sure at times it may have been apparent to WH how uncomfortable I was.
I agree that now I can let people know about seperation but honestly the wedding was not the place. It was awkward and I think he could have handleed reponses differently but I think it would have been even MORE akward to tell people and make the bride & groom uncomfortable. I tried to just remember it was their special day.
You guys are so great. I don't know what I would do without this place!
