My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[WhatNow]

W went for a drive with us this evening when I took the kids to a park. She still sleeps on the sofa, but at least she is being cordial around me. I haven't touched her for about three months now and I don't really strike up many conversations with her, but I do answer her when she talks to me.

From her, this means nothing. Do not read anything into it.
Because of this:

I discovered 14 messages from OM in the past month and I did listen to them and it almost made me want to vomit. He kept saying, "I love you" or "I miss you" or even "I love you, I love you, I love you". One message was about good lawyers he found and another was about apartments he found in her price range. I'm telling you, this nut is in hot blind pursuit of my wife and won't let up and won't stop no matter what anyone tells him.

Why does she save them?

I also took liberty to forward several of the messages to my phone.

Forward them to OMW as well. Gotta wake that woman up!


I am concerned about the fact you are still enabling a relationship between the kids. Let it drop. I edged friends out of my kids lives over the years, for many reasons, (dad was a drug addict, Mom allowed R rated films for 8 year olds, etc) The kids' parent pursuing my spouse would have made it on that list as well. You do not have to explain anything to them or they'll resist. Just be busy when it comes up. "Sorry honey, we are going to another church now (so Mommy can join us") Ok leave out the last part, but cool it! (If you give in to "fits" you're asking for major trouble in a few years!)


I am glad things were more peaceful for you today. Sorry if I rained on your parade.