Today was actually a pretty good day by comparison. My wife was interested in going to church with us (a different church because of the embarrassment of the exposure I did in our regular church), but my older daughter threw a fit saying she wanted to see her friend (who unfortunately is OM's son) and so W stayed home and I took the kids to church. Ironically, the OM's son, who is also the one who had the birthday party, was not present because he was sick, but OMW was there and I spoke to her a bit and recommended Penny Tuppy's stuff to her.
I don't think W communicated with OM today. But when I checked her cell phone, I discovered 14 messages from OM in the past month and I did listen to them and it almost made me want to vomit. He kept saying, "I love you" or "I miss you" or even "I love you, I love you, I love you". One message was about good lawyers he found and another was about apartments he found in her price range. I'm telling you, this nut is in hot blind pursuit of my wife and won't let up and won't stop no matter what anyone tells him. I also took liberty to forward several of the messages to my phone.
W went for a drive with us this evening when I took the kids to a park. She still sleeps on the sofa, but at least she is being cordial around me. I haven't touched her for about three months now and I don't really strike up many conversations with her, but I do answer her when she talks to me.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
