So, my trust but verify moto, got me checking H's mail last night. Not the one he gave me access to, his business one he doenst know I have passwords for. And there was communication with a single woman, one from a sponsor again. Talking about work. And then as I was reading more of the indifferent emails, I started reading some things that did make me feel...nervous. I dont know how to explain this, although the emails were inocent,the content was becoming personal like
her: hope you did get upset about that comment I made about you him:no, you have never made me upset with anything you have said, her:ok because you look kind of too serious, what sign are you, Pisces? him:No I am not Pisces, I am the sign everbody frowns when I tell them and I am not serious, it's my defense I guess her: oh OK then him:when are you coming down to the South so can talk instead of email communicating? her:what to do? I will if the team passes but not now him:there are a lot of things you could do... her:no, I wont now, we are not like XXXXcompany (the one OW was working for), our budget is limited, we cant afford media events (she puts a :))) here).
4 years ago, I wouldnt mind at all. Now I am sensing he is flirting again and dont trust him he will stop there if he gets a chance. He is a good looking man and many women think he is a catch, at 39, with good jobs, known journalist, etc etc
So the question is, do I mention this communicationg telling him he is out of line or he will get out of line or shut up and keep a close eye? It is clear he doesnt set boundaries...
I was thinking of actually sending him their emails with a comment :"this is unacceptable. Good bye!" To shock him but I wonder of that means he will be just more careful.
