That's a good question - have you asked your L how to proceed?

In our agreement, we didn't specify at all, just said we'd divide the household assets.

Actually we didn't really "agree" - she took a bunch of crap when she moved, which I did get angry about. But in the end, it IS just stuff, I got over it. I bought a new TV, and haven't replaced the bedroom suite - I cared at first, but crap it IS just stuff.

Is there precedence for DD going to private elementry school? If I recall your sitch correctly, there isn't, but I'm not certain. Yeah ask your lawyer - you guys are going to have joint legal custody, right? I agree with OF - don't think you should be compelled to send DD to private school, and I think that's your decision about how you are going to spend YOUR money. But ask the lawyer, if she's seeking for that to be part of the agreement, how that works. Crap, if that's so important to her then, she can apply your child support payments to private school.