"I don't want a divorce. I made a commitment to my marriage for better or worse and this is the worse... I am going to family therapy, I am being an adult and a husband..."
I took a peek at her texts last night and she messaged:
"He talked about 'for better or for worse. hahahaha!'"
Her friend replied: "OMG that's funny. You cannot reason with INSANITY. hahaha"
RIGHT, you cannot reason with THEM because they represent insanity. Its funny how these friends will support anything they do, they get a whole charge out of the affair themself. Its like watching a fist fight and embelleshing in it, without having to have thrown a punch.
Originally Posted By: QuickSilver264
I am so getting the dynamic right now. She texted a friend to make herself feel better, and get the support she needed in feeling the way she does.
I completely ignored her today except for a text of when she would be home to let out the dogs.
I did 6 hours of yardwork and housework, just to make MY HOUSE look nicer. I might only have this house for 4 more months, so I should enjoy a beautiful house and make it more inviting.
She is leaving for business tomorrow, and I don't plan on calling her, so I won't physically speak to her for about 8 more days.
And next week when she is home, my 180 gets REALLY in gear, as I am pouring a new concrete step, and have plans almost every night of the week to do something.
One day at a time I guess...
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Listen to Allen. You sound good and you sound detached.
