she thought a lot of my problems are just 'the way I am', which really isn't the case. A person is only who they are willing to be
That's an interesting point... I meant to say your W's way of not communicating but I now see that it can be looked from both sides.
I guess things will be how they are meant to be. We can try to minimize the damage by DBing but whether we save our M or not is another matter altogether.
Sometimes I feel the best GAL is to keep off the forum and not think about it at all.
