SA & GAG - Interesting that your Hs also had hard time sleeping....mine became a light sleeper when D was born, but in the past few years it got to a point that it was a pretty big problem for him...IMO it has to do something with MLC/depression/andropause.
GAG - good find in the archives, thanks for posting that. It's really fascinating to hear the MLC's take on things after they wake up. It gives you a peek into what may be going on in H's mind. I will definitely read the whole tread.
M&H - mine doesn't ask at all about my life or where I'm going, occasionally I've noticed that he really wants to know and he dances around it to see if I will volunteer, but he holds his tongue and doesn't ask a direct question.
lalxx - thank you...I really think that I have finally let him go, I feel strong and positive...more so if I don't see him. I 'm actually enjoying my life for the past week, lots of GALs, new plans for the future...I'm sick and tired of being down...I want to be happy again...I'm moving in the right direction
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
