But I'll say again, for her and her personality type and the way she thinks , if I show NO interest at all, then that will most certainly validate for her that I never really cared afterall.
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I always thought that her knowing I would always be there for her, faithful , not having a wandering eye , always reliable and committed would be enough to get us through the rough patches. I mean, I did other stuff as well, random cards , flowers , gifts for no reason , compliments on her appearance etc
So either you are lying about those things or you lack confidence. A man who does those things can't possibly believe that his woman would think that he didn't care about her unless he lacks confidence in himself. You are desperate here and not thinking clearly about what really is going on.
This shows me you lack confidence in who you are. A man that does those things should be letting her walk away with his head held high and be showing her with his actions this: "If you can find someone who cares more for you and treats you better, then be my guest. There are PLENTY of women out there who would love a man who is faithful, who tells them they are beautiful, gives them random cards, flowers and gifts and doesn't have a wandering eye." You lack confidence. I would call her bluff on this one and walk away with my head held high. Did you make some mistakes? Yes, probably. Haven't we all? I would let reality stare HER in the face here AND find a woaman who does want a man like that. AND there are plenty that do.
