I was just wondering, Ive read thread after thread of very similar stories as mine. Basically one spouse wants out of the M, the other desperately wants to save the M. For the one that wants to save the M, its just an awful rollercoaster ride - but Im not really finding any stories where a M was saved, or I am missing them -
My wife and I saved our marriage. We have a huge and unresolved issue about sex, but we no longer fight about it. We've been to counseling and lots of help, but it's clear it will probably remain totally unresolved. It's just that we have learned very well how to minimize the effect on everything else in our marriage.
