Just purchased the following book and halfway through the first chapter.

Communication Miracles for Couples: Easy and Effective Tools to Create More Love and Less Conflict

I have a better understanding of what validating is. Could have did this earlier and W would not had gone to bed upset with me.

Last edited by OfficerInNeed; 06/13/10 04:44 AM.
M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10