P-The reconciliation process is rough on my SIL but she feels things are moving upward. When she has triggers and hard days, her H isn't always patient- he gets tired of her bringing it up. He wants her to forgive and move on.

BD-Yes, their story of R shows it might be several false starts before making it. This seems very realistic.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004