I got to my car and just started BAWLING. I felt like maybe I was too cold to WH? He would kind of stand behind me/follow me but like I said I didn't initiate interaction unless he did it first. I guess I felt kind of bad. I think in my mind he would have made more of an effort to make me feel comfortable or something.
Browneyes, I am so sorry but I was reading this whole summary thinking how your H was treating YOU badly! He was using you. I feel bad telling you that, but re-read your own post and you will see how he was putting up a front to everyone,being "fake" and then ignoring you or treating you badly.
It is time to detach. Maybe alanon would help you? (((HUGS)))
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004