MLC, H and me

[WhatNow]

I don't know why I am interested in this other than sometimes I doubt that H is really in MLC even though it has been pretty consistant.

know what you mean. Some of the behaviors are so weird.

Kids are with H and OW today through tomorrow. Not feeling as sick about it as I was the first time but we will see how I handle it tomorrow if the kids tell me all about it.

I can't imagine how you can stand it! My kids haven't seen OW since she was pursuing H at a party at our home pre-A. They thought she was bizarre then. They hate her now. H hasn't tried to get them together. I think he knows they would chew her up and spit her out....esp DD16, she doesn't pull any punches. He mentioned the other day that she never lets an opportunity to toss in a dig, pass by!

I had a hard time after he left with going NC with him. I asked the kids to NOT tell me about their contact with him. Them telling me stuff was a form of contact! I had explained why I was NC (it was for me to find some peace) and asked for their help. It helped.