Very wise words:
Originally Posted By: Coach
She's not attracted to you. She's bored. She wants something to look forward to. It's important to plan things and make them fun and interesting. Make yourself attractive to your wife. Lead.

Originally Posted By: Coach
This is attractive to a woman. She wants to know all about your day - especially tough things you deal with. Men want to forget about the BS while women need to know about your drama. They need to know that if things get tough then you can handle it. My wife told me she didn't think I was tough. I went to The Citadel, flew in Desert Storm, have started teams, manage my own practice and have three kids. I have dealt with adversity but since I didn't share it with her she didn't feel I was tough. I shielded her from my misery, it's not healthy in a marriage. When your wife feels she is part of why you do what you do then all your dreams will come true.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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