"I am sorry you feel that way" - I said that twice last night, and she said "STOP saying that".
Just keep saying those statements. They work. Review the list. Understand why they work. Add to it. Speak the truth. DO NOT FIGHT BACK......
Quote:
It really is as if an alien took her over. She has kept saying over the weeks [i]"I always put you first, and now for the first time I am going to put me first and do what I need to be happy".
My response would be:"I can understand why you would feel that way. I want you to be happy also."
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
