It only has to make sense for you. I get what you're saying, I really do. I also feel the tug occassionally to just have an answer either way. The thing is, in my case, I suspect I already know the answer. So, I don't ask the question, b/c I don't want the answer.
Could I handle any answer that was given? Yes. I just want him to own it, by taking the responsibility to do what he wants done instead of me doing it.
You're right about the time with you kids flying by. I made the mistake of blinking
