I think you will get some good support if you post under the "piecing our mrriage" forum! Because it sounds like you are piecing...crossing my fingers for you! good job.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004