punkin, it is 1.37 in the morning here and i have my son's cricket match to go to in 9 hours (yup all part of that learning curve!!) so I'll be heading off to the land of nod soon BUT I cannot go without asking you this one....quite direct....question.......

What are you doing for YOU right now, this weekend??? How are you building a life for you that you are proud of and healing the hurt so that your husband doesn't cast a long dark shadow into your future??

2 months to you is goodness knows what in the MLC timescale - their timeline works on a different scale to ours in real life I have to say! Without exception everyone on these boards says we LBS have to learn patience by the bucketload - hard but that's they way it is.

Grandma's a gifts from God - my 2 children adore their Grandmas and my daughter is always telling me that my brownies aren't as good as Grandma's ones....

((hugs))

lalxx

Last edited by lalxx; 06/13/10 12:44 AM.

Choose Life
Me: 45
Him: 44
S:11
D:8
Met in 1992
Married in 1995
Bomb drop September 30th 2009
Divorce final April 16th 2011
exH Marries OW June 17th 2011