Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

OF, I was wondering where you've been. Good to see you here and thanks for the input.

I always remembered what you said and it's why I switched attorneys, the previous one (just like antler's attorney) was a lazy dirtbag who was telling me to be 'reasonable' with STBXW during the temp support arrangements. That was the last straw and I got rid of him. Money wasted? yes...did I take action to protect myself better though, absolutely.

OF, when you say man-up, tell me how...I'm ready to do it. I have to say that this is helping me big time detaching from her emotionally. In fact, I already want her to get away from me and leave me the heck alone. How sad...this is the woman for whom I cried like a little boy and wanted her even after what she did.