I am so sorry that your sitch has taken this turn. My heart goes out to you. IMO - your H wanted to initiate the process so that he did not have to own it. Personally, a coward move IMO. No disrepect toward your H. I think you are handeling things well.
I would also like to thank you for your message on the alt. It meant a lot to me.
Right now the chips may appeared to be stacked against us, right now we may feel weak, tired, defeated. Are we? I SAY NOT! I say we continue to STAND. Stand - yes...STAND. Stand for our moral beliefs, stand for our families, stand for our children...stand for what is just and right and finally.....stand for OURSELVES!
We have all made mistakes, we are all growing and learning - some faster than others. We GAL, we DETACH because we know we must. When we detach enough we ask ourselve the very question that our MLCer are asking themselves. Is this what I want? I this the life that God wants for me?
If we can put our pride, hurt, anger and disappointment aside we can answer the question.
Personally my question is this....Do I fight for the" Opportunity" to be "second"? I believe not!
Keep loving from a distance..keep doing what is right and just and then....LET GO.
God Bless and Cheers Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
