dbs, you are taking this atcion from a well thought out experienced position - categorically no shame in that whatsoever - you gave it your best shot and now you know what you have to do, for you.

You should be proud of yourself and any lady that gets to know you better in the future is getting a solid guy.

good deal all round in my book

lalxx

Choose Life
Me: 45
Him: 44
S:11
D:8
Met in 1992
Married in 1995
Bomb drop September 30th 2009
Divorce final April 16th 2011
exH Marries OW June 17th 2011