I had that problem too for ages - hence I still do longhand most of the time - LBS means Left Behind Spouse .....not exactly sexy is it but it covers wives/husbands and does what it says on the tin!!

lalxx

Choose Life
Me: 45
Him: 44
S:11
D:8
Met in 1992
Married in 1995
Bomb drop September 30th 2009
Divorce final April 16th 2011
exH Marries OW June 17th 2011