After sleeping on it I'm leaning more towards saying something like: "let's not piece meal splitting assets. Whatever you want make a final list of it and let's work through the lawyers on it."
Good.
Originally Posted By: StupidRomeo
I think in order to "win" this I need to be prepared to walk away empty handed. Anything material that I value I need to stop valuing it. It's the only way I can deal with it in a business like manner.
Yes, most of it is just stuff, but that doesn't mean you just let her take and take.
Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
if you are the bigger man, I have to believe some semblance of the woman you married will emerge and feel sorry for her actions.
I believe this, too, CTH (maybe the spaceship will come back, take back the alien replica and return the original woman ) I really do believe this. Maybe part of me needs to believe it. Hang in there.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac