You do need support, but you need someone trained to do that properly, she is not a licensed family therapist.. If she was she would have lost her license and be a pariah by now... Having sex with the people you are trying to help is an egregious violation of ethics and trust.
Said something similar to this once (thanks to one of your earlier comments), and he admitted he realize that she wasn't a neutral party who should be giving him support in our matters, so I think I'll keep reiterating in different ways until hopefully it fully sinks in.
Originally Posted By: Allen A
I told my wife when she was cheating
You talking to OM 40 hours a week and talking to a family therapist for ONE hour a week is NOT going to make a damn bit of difference in our marriage. Do the math.
I like this... next MC convo, this will definitely be used.
Originally Posted By: newmama
Elvencat, be aware that the OW will now (or already has) started to pull her manipulative BS to counteract what you have discussed with your H.
Pretty sure she started this the instant he was three hours later getting to her house last night than he said he'd be.
So, today, all hell broke loose on Facebook. One of my friends posted on board.. H returned post.. so on back and forth. Wow it go nasty... the only problem is that FF (said facebook friend) attacked H for something that should not have been talked about - not having a job - aka dead beat.... problem is, H legitimately cannot work right now due to his health issues and is on disability. So, now I feel like I have to say thanks for the support, but.... any ideas on how to respond here?
Me 32, H 34, DD 3 M 6, T 8 Bomb 03/10 OW Bomb 6/5/10 Separate & NC 6/28/10 My 2nd EA Thread
