Exposed finally,,limbo land

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So I got the advice from the attorney, he said at this point just let it play out, whatever she does, we will address when it comes up.

I will not be leaving the house at all. She was asked to, but at this time she can do whatever she wants - stay, go, whatever, I really don't care. I love her but at this point have little effect on her actions.

She is all over the place with everything she does in life, and therefore it has me looking into MLC info. So far, everything I read points directly at a typical female MLC scenario. She has never rebelled in any part of her life, and is choosing now I guess. She says,"I went straight from my parents, to first M, and 3 months later to you. I've never had time just to be me and be happy."

I ordered a book, women in mid-life crisis, and will take suggestions on others.

She has pretty much alienated herself from all family, hers and mine.

I have to take care of DD's and me, she has taken some semi-risky moves concerning DD's and I need to make sure they are safe. At this point, I have to consider myself the primamry caregiver, being that she just pushes youngest off on others, and lets 14 yr old do whatever she wants.

If she files, she files, I'm not going to worry about it. But I am going to make sure these kids are not scarred for life with poor actions taken by her at this time.