This is the actual letter I used. Most of the ideas in it came from Allen. I sent it to many of OM's FB friends and many church friends:
"[OM] is pursuing my wife to have an affair with her since July of last year. My home that was once happy is now wracked with tension, stress, and guilt. My wife and my children are miserable. I ask that you support my wife, my children, and my home and press [OM] to leave my home and family alone. This is a terrible thing to do to innocent children.
Thank you in advance for your help."
And most of the people I sent it to are supporting me, but there were a couple who doubted the truth of it. I just explained it to them in more detail.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.