I feel like i need to contact WAW

[knightinneed]

City girl, i know your right, and if it was me well I would think get away from it - take your daughter and go.

I am feeling better today about things and I know complete detachment is necessary. OM's W is saying all this to me, and now I receive a call from WAW's good friend and she told me the following below.

- She said WAW was not kicked out and that OM left the house which is true to go stay with his dad.
- She said OM and his Wife are both nuts and that OM and WAW never had anything going and that OM is stalking WAW.
- She said that OM Wife freaked out because WAW put a flower in her childs hair and wrote a nasty facebook message to WAW about it.
- She said that WAW does not like OM and told him repeatedly that there is no romance or anything and he will not listen.

And this is the Son of court monitor for DD1, whom likely is in the house during visits??

My sister who communicates with OM's Mom is going to get to the bottom of this insanity.

Questions :
1.I do not know whom to believe regarding this relationship, but I suspect maybe something happened WAW broke it off, the OM moved out of the house. But if he is stalking WAW and this drama is happening over there what do i need to do for my daughters sake? Do I leave it alone or report this to CPS and Lawyer?

2. OM W still wants to meet and would like me to show her some paperwork on my WAW that shows her arrests and the cps case etc.
She is still not sure if her and OM are going to work, and is concerned about her 2 kids being around all this which I understand completely - However WAWs friend said she was Nuts, and should not be trusted.

In busting the EA/PA should I still meet with her? Is there any harm in just showing this poor depressed woman some papers?

3. WAW stated clearly that our relationship is OVER. Which i can accept that yes the way it is now it is OVER. I am hoping
it settles enough to where we can do a Shared Custody agreement, as part of this behavior is directly related to her having too much time on her hands as she noted in a email.

Is it wrong for me to want and give her another chance, play civil and shared custody? I am hoping I can trust her.

4. WAW's friend thought I was psychotic for even exposing this EA or PA to everyone, however I felt it was the right thing to do at the time. Do you think it was wrong to do this?

Me 36
WAW 29
Together 2.5 yrs
Married 1 year 2 month
DD 1