holy cow! antlers you need to fire her @ss now! she already screwed up big time getting you in more a tough situation that was completely unnecessary. antlers, I'm urging you to look for another attorney. I went through this myself and the new (law firm as opposed to a single dirt-bag) attorney's *much* better and I have access to other attorneys in the firm as needed. Please do this now before the trial. I know you've invested money into her (like I did) but a one time cost of $3-5k is well worth it to have someone that's good, willing to work with you and won't drop the ball.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again