I hear what you're saying about this divorce crap but you're getting closer to the end so hang in there. In probably less than 6 months time you'll be a free man! just hang in there and do your best.
Also, don't email her etc unless it's about the kids or a life threatening emergency. Please just go through the lawyers...she's no itentions of talking with you directly and you'll only keep getting hurt from having expectations from her...even about her responding. So go completely dark.
You'll be OK antlers, it may take time but you'll be OK. She's just showing her true colors like my STBXW and quite frankly it's helped me get over her emotionally because I was still hoping for a reconciliation but now I just want her out of my life so I can move on with my DD.
How old are your kids (sorry still haven't gone back to read your sitch from the start)
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
