OTMT-

Thanks for opening up your stich for me - I really hope you can come back strong and work towards a good outcome for both of you - we both know this is a huge mountain to climb and it has to start with that first step!

As for my feelings about the EA - I really don't have any resentment at all (it was my actions that sent her that direction) and yes she is very stubborn as well! Since the EA isn't gnawing away at me I can pretty much shut it down in a compartment in my mind and lock it away. Things are very fragile day to day here and as I was told by another - "Is what I am saying or doing beneficial to the R or hurtful" So at this point "forgiveness" is an important issue and like medicine I'll wait until she's showing the signs of needing it!

Thanks again!

DD


Me 49
H 46
M 23yrs
T 25 yrs
Bomb Drop 4/2010
S22/D19/D15/S13

Same roof, different beds

"Honestly I can say this trip into my own private hell is a journey that I know now I had to take."