Update - OM W called and said that WAW was kicked out of MIL's house and that she would like to get some information from me regarding WAW, in case she decides to divorce and go for full custody. I guess i could show her some info, but it looks as if exposing this ea possible pa worked.

OM deleted WAW from facebook, she supposedly was kicked out of his moms house, and well that leaves things in a very weird state.

OM's Mom is the court monitor for WAW to get visitation with DD1. I am honestly worried now about WAW's mental state, and where she will end up. It is possible she can lose her job over all this as well since she works for OM's mom.

I told OM's wife that I was glad to expose this and hope that they can get over this and stay married.

My sister is going to call OM's mom and find out what is going on. I wish WAW would wake up and see the craziness she has created in her life. If this becomes rock bottom, maybe she will begin to miss what she had get help and maybe make the M work.

The last thing I told my Lawyer was that I was interested in giving WAW a chance by pushing for mediation and full shared custody with no Child Support. WAW seemed as if this is what she wanted to do and said we could work on being friends for DD1.

I honestly decided on this, and now all this happens with her. I am worried yet again about if I am going to have to tell Lawyer I want full custody, and to come up with some serious cash for this case.

I guess Ill find out sooner or later.

I got to GAL last night and went out, met a really nice girl just as friends and had a good time talking with her, nothing serious but it was nice to talk to a pretty woman who can carry a great conversation.

Thats all for now.


M 36
W 29
Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months
Daughter 15 months
Bomb 4/22/10
Separated since 4/25/10
OM 6/10/10
Hopeful, but moving on