Bare with me here, I am doing the best I can. I am reading/making all these posts from a blackberry screen.
Maybe I am reading too much into these posts that somehow I thought I was saying the right things.
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Just for the future something along the lines of "W, I think it's possible if WE work TOGETHER".
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No negativity during this process, no assuming, no snotty comments and make it all about the two of you working together!
I thought I was doing this by saying the following
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W then made a comment about hiring someone to do it and I said "I understand why you would say that but we'll get it done, just one step at a time and when we're done it will feel good because we did it ourselves."
My words were meant/intended as validation and understanding and then I was making it all about us two working together.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
