The man is insane. Or, I suspect, thinks the world revolves around him, and would expect help no matter how awful he treated you and D. Probably wonders what your problem is? I say, no statement, "you get nothing, are owed nothing, you are nothing except the father of D." Or, just ignore any request for it.
I just cannot believe this man!!!!
I kinda vote for both--he is insane because his reality is that the world revolves around him.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012